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Another "Feel Good" Story

Wed March 04 2009 @ 09:03 AM

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If you've checked in to the Blog somewhat regularly, you can probably tell that we have a fondness for this type of story. When we run across these situations, we like to highlight them because they don't get nearly the level of exposure they should when compared to stories like this one.

Most youth sports events happen without much incident. There are very few that have either the gravity of the first story or the ominous overtones of the second (Could you imagine the number and types of complaints that a state government sponsored youth council would have to hear?). But in most youth sports events, there are moments when the sportsmanship displayed by the high school free throw shooter and his teammates can be seen in smaller, less serious interactions. If the children involved in youth sports accumulate enough of these smaller moments, then we could expect them to show the respect and compassion that those basketball players showed to an opponent who had suffered a tragic loss.

As parents, coaches, officials, and administrators, we have many opportunities to teach sportsmanship and respect in practices, games, and other situations in which we interact with players and participants. We need to make sure that we recognize not only those moments, but the impact we have on the children we coach when those moments arise. How we handle those moments will go a long way to ensuring that, if we are ever faced with a situation like that high school basketball team, our team will respond with the same sensitivity and respect.

Posted By: Jim Roynan

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John Marron said 11 hours ago

Jim,

Keep the "feel good" stories coming, especially the message of "win with class, lose with grace" - not only are we all involved with youth sports, but we are involved with "community based" youth sports. Over the course of our childrens "careers" we not only build a relationship with the kids we coach, we also build one with those kids our kids compete against. I think that is the best part, in watching the kids grow together, and in enjoying seeing them get better as much (OK - ALMOST as much) as our own kids. When you look at it that way, how could you ever run up the score or otherwise be un-sportsmanlike or unfair to kids you have come to know over so many years?

They only shame of course, is that these articles make the news, and are not considered commonplace - maybe when our kids have kids.....